That’s only half true. We spent the last three years buying crap with an eye toward decorating this home. Rest assured, it’s AWESOME! At first, with junk ankle-deep on every walkable surface, I worried that perhaps our house would look like someone hit us over the head with Asia. Did we exceed Asian saturation? No. I think we pull it together by having good American bones in out house, traditional basics, and a lot of crap from port calls, not just the booty from our monthly raids on the Yamato Antique Market. Ah, but I am getting ahead of myself. No home photos yet, unfortunately; we are still arranging the finishing details, but please know we have set a deadline for completion (and blog-sumption).
Hannah, Justin and Ezekiel arrived bearing the kitties and the vintage settee I bought for $75 at a yard sale last summer. We took them to Peg Leg Pete’s on Pensacola Beach, where we split oysters on the half shell (so not gross anymore), steamed crabs, fried Gulf shrimp, etc. Han and Justin helped organize the massive dump of office, nightstand and kitchen junk drawer mess overtaking the corner and set up the bookshelves. Slowly but surely, more and more empty boxes appear in the dumpsters on the empty lot next door and less and less stuff lives on the floor in our house. The kitchen counters are clear. There’s stuff on the walls. The living room has reached its final furniture arrangement. The fireplace has been broken in. We bought daffodils and hyacinths for the garden. Chris hung the swing on the back porch. The coo-coo clock ticks in the kitchen where you can actually see it. The clothes I don’t know what to do with are on the floor instead of stacked in boxes (Now that we’re back in Florida I’m faced with a clothing issue: I’m already mostly wearing stuff I wore in the summer in Japan. It was 40 degrees yesterday and people were still wearing sandals. Should I just put all layering pieces and winter clothes in deep storage until such a time as I need them again??).
The difficult part of moving is making decisions about every single piece of crap Chris and I own. Does it stay? Where does it go? The difficult part is having car trouble. The difficult part is my computer crashing three times in a day.
The NOT difficult part of moving is waking up in the morning and having counter space. Being able to do three loads of laundry in ONE DAY instead of taking an entire day to dry one wrinkly load and the iron never getting hot enough to get the wrinkles out. Having only a reasonable amount of dust build up between weekly dustings. Carpet. A dining room. Calling my parents from the same time zone. Isaac gets tired so I put him down for a nap in his crib instead of a motel room. Pounce curled up next to me on the couch—er, settee. A dishwasher. Did I mention counter space? I love counter space.
The hard part of moving is feeling my stomach knot with homesickness anytime I think about Japan. The best part of moving is reliving all the highlights as I decide where to put the carved teak elephants from Thailand or the antique glass bubble Japanese fishing float, and spread the blanket from Singapore on the guest bed and the tablecloth from Malaysia on the kitchen table. That sounds kind of materialistic, but it’s like painting: I like to make our house beautiful and imbue it with meaning. To show where we’ve been, and where we’re going. I would love to take you on a tour, so stay tuned. In the meantime, please tell me: what’s your favorite souvenir or thing in your home and why?
Lisa McKay says
Moving, GAH!. Hate. And we get to do it in six weeks as we're moving house here in town. OK, favorite souvenir. This is really tough. Perhaps the ridiculously expensive carpet I bought in Turkey for my (hopefully) writers retreat/office one day. So beautiful!!
Laurie says
I'm sure your house will be beautiful when you're finished decorating! My favorite souvenir is my completed shrine book.
AS says
My favorite thing in my new home is my stove and oven. The stove is gas. I turn it on and I have heat! I turn it off and I have no heat! I can delay start my oven. I can tell my oven when to turn off. So I can cook so many things ahead of time, put it in the oven, leave the house, and come home to cooked food! Or I can even bake something in the oven and tell it when to stop, so if the timer goes off and I don't hear it (because I probably wouldn't with all the kid noise) my food won't be burnt! I love it!!
My next favorite thing is the heated floors. Nice, warm, floors. So, so, so, nice.
As for stuff – it's just stuff. Luke and I talked about how great it would be if our stuff got lost on the way to Alaska so then we could buy different stuff. But I think Luke would have been sad not to see his Japan swords.
Rachel says
I am in love with your skirt – so stinkin' trendy!
Hhhmm… that is a toughie — my favorite piece of furniture in the house has to be the hand-carved, teak cabinet. It was our first married, adult purchase. I do also love my caned, plantation chair – such a unique piece and sooo versatile (I have used it as an accessory in so many rooms!)
I am bubbling over with excitement to see your place! It is going to be awesome, I am sure of it!
San Diego Farmgirl says
I am also coveting your skirt and adorable little sailor boy! My boy learned how to crawl AND stand up and toddle a bit last week, so … um … get ready to REdecorate in 4-5 months or so! =)
I love my art collection. Especially these days, since most items are hung high on the walls, away from curious baby fingers. The rest of it is safely packed away. I also have my Grandmother's china that I've loved since I was a kid.
McKay says
Mari, I love your statement about decorating: meaningful, showing where we've been and where we're going. I love when each thing in my eyeline reminds me of an adventure or some romantic or exotic experience with Rob (I decorate the bedroom exclusively with romantic items).
I love my cowhide rug from Argentina where I bartered so well my local friends commented on what a good deal I got. I love the coat rack I made with antique hooks where scarves Rob purchased in Afghanistan hang. And I love a picture of us at an air show with Rob in his flight suit that gets put in my suitcase, not a box, each time we PCS so I can make whatever "home" we're in feel a little more like "home."